This is just a little response generated after reading a thread entitled: "What's the Deal?"
The poor soul was inquiring about his script because he was excited about receiving feedback (bad idea) and he wasn't quite thinking really about how Don might have a life where he did things like eat and sleep, maybe even go to the occasional movie and visited with his loved ones in person.
The poor Web manager deals with the innocent and unrealistic demands of young minds who don't quite get the "it" of it yet.
What I'm referring to is the It which means that you may get a few warm fuzzies from good critiques and you'll no doubt get a lot of seemingly cataclysmic remarks which may cause you to sink into indolence, but no matter what you get, you need to first get It.
Getting It means this: Don't wait around for a manuscript to come back from Acme publishers. Don't wait around for Don or any other site manager to post your script. Don't wait around for your creative juices to flow like wine from an eternally giving cask.
Simply, work. Faithfully work every day. A little at a time. Or a lot at a time-- whatever that day brings and you bring to it.
Don't wait for a teacher to enlighten you. Don't pay thousands of dollars on writer's conferences so that you can learn "The Secret." Spend thousands of dollars on writer's conferences so you can enjoy the experience of being with others on a similar path as you.
The only secret is hard work and destiny. And if you work really hard and destiny has something else in mind, then that's good too. As long as you're not dealing with some kind of painful affliction, you're probably in pretty good shape. Actually, I have, and I know of others also who have dealt with painful afflictions and they can often raise their hands and their hearts in testimony to the fact that the human spirit is great indeed.
So what I'm saying about this great spirit is that you should take it. Scoop it up for yourself. Don't wait around for someone to give it to you. Work at it. That's all.
Right now, on Youtube, there is a video about a young man who went blind and then became a painter.
I'm sure that when or if he had told anyone what he was deciding upon doing after loosing his sight, many would have said, "Don't be silly." Whether or not he kept his plans to himself or not, I don't know. What I think often holds true though--for most of us with not the strongest minds--(I said not the strongest; I didn't say anything about the degree of brilliance) is that we often succumb to negativity which is generated even at unconscious levels from others.
Oh, here's the link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8P84bfFpVWE&NR=1 Think about this: The blind painter cannot enjoy "looking" at his work. He can only enjoy creating it.
What I'm trying to say in this post is that we shouldn't wait. Every minute of the day we need to be engaged in our work. Even when we're not working, our subconscious needs to be involved with the work and this is an active process even if we're not aware of it.
Don't wait for "Rah Rah's" because the truth of the matter is that many people tend to be infinitely negative and "The Greats" often die before they're truly recognized as great and "The Greats" that are living are often shot down; their personal lives are dragged out into the public eye where the fickle "Rah Rah People" love to tear the individual down and display their flaws.
Quit waiting. Seize the work and apply it forcefully with your will. When critiques roll in, be grateful, but know that measuring your success by them is tricky indeed.
You might write something which seems to have been a complete bomb, but it has paved the way; (love that cliche) it has paved the way for something else which comes ex nihilo, and then you really celebrate.
Maybe you need to write a lot of bombs first. That just might be the way of it. Of It. That work thing. That personal thing. That thing which kind of connects to the God thing. You know. Or maybe not...
This has been a wonderful excuse to get away from my work in progress, (my secret waiting) and I know that I'm coming to a very important revelation: We DO need that little time away... and then we come back... and everything is exciting and new and... we forgot our character's great grandfather's name. (Got to take the good with the bad).
Isn't that another good reason not to wait? Just do what you do and let the cards fall. Focus on the work, not on the wait.
Sandra